You are the man who texts back fast, pays for everything, keeps the peace and gets called sweet on the way out the door. The problem was never that you are too nice. You handed her the power the day you met and spent every day after asking for it back. I have coached a New York Times best-selling author, an NFL player, an SNL cast member and politicians out of that exact habit. One man at a time, in your phone, every day, until the pleasing stops and the pull starts.
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Unedited. Me catching a man mid-please and turning him around, what I pull for myself, and one client's win.




The people pleasing ends with a decision, and this is the first one you make void of anyone's approval. I read every application myself. If you are a fit, the calendar opens right here.